Parents Were Wild Once Too: 10 Questions That Will Make Them Spill Their Best Stories
- Yulia Kholodova
- Mar 6
- 2 min read

Hi! I'm Yulia, a co-creator of the Indlovu mobile app for storing family stories.
We often treat visits with our older relatives as a duty - another item to check off our to-do list. "Must visit mom and dad this weekend," "Should call grandma," "Need to stop by Aunt Sarah's..." Sound familiar?
Yet think about it - how many hours do we spend watching YouTube shows about strangers' lives or listening to podcasts where celebrities share their life stories? We're fascinated by these tales of unknown people, hanging on every detail of their past. But what about the incredible stories hiding in our own families?
Your mom's teenage adventures might be just as thrilling as your favorite influencer's. Your dad's first job story could be more interesting than that podcast episode you just heard.
And your grandparents? They've lived through events we only see in history documentaries!
The best part? Unlike those distant celebrities, these are YOUR people. Their stories are part of YOUR story. Every funny incident, every touching moment, every wild adventure - it's all part of the heritage that shaped who you are today.
So next time you visit your family, try turning it into a fascinating conversation. I'll share some questions that helped me discover extraordinary stories about my parents - stories I had no idea existed until I asked the right questions.
1. What was your favorite toy as a child?
Everyone loves remembering their childhood treasures, and this question often brings up sweet stories about family members who gave or made these toys.
2. What's the most mischievous thing you did as a teenager?
This one always gets them laughing and sharing stories they might have kept secret for years.
3. What was your first job, and how much did you earn?
It's fascinating to hear about early work experiences and how different things were back then.
4. What's the most unusual food you've ever tried?
This question often leads to great travel stories or memories of trying new things.
5. What song from your youth can you still sing by heart?
Music brings back such vivid memories, and you might even get a live performance!
6. What nickname did you have as a child, and how did you get it?
Nicknames usually come with funny or touching stories about childhood personalities.
7. What was your favorite dish that your mother used to make?
Food memories are powerful and often connect generations of family history.
8. What's the craziest fashion trend you participated in?
Everyone has at least one embarrassing fashion story that's hilarious to look back on.
9. What's the most daring thing you did that your parents never found out about?
This often reveals surprising stories about their adventurous side!
10. If you could relive one day from your past, which would it be and why?
This question often reveals what moments meant the most to them.
These questions helped me see my parents in a whole new light - as young, adventurous people who weren't so different from me! We store everything in the Indovu mobile app to save for me and my kids. Try asking your family these questions and save them in audio or video format - I bet you'll discover some amazing stories, too!